Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Maa Ka Pyaar

My friend’s mom had come for Madhushravani puja. I, with my other friends went to her house for the last day puja. That day you are supposed to eat as much sweet dishes as you can.

We all did the puja and then it was time for some prashad. We all sat and aunty started serving and then the serving went on and on…..Kheer, ladoos, fruits, rasgullas, dry fruits, barfis and so on. Too much of sweets, we were all tired of eating. And then while leaving, aunty said, “Have some puri sabji?”

We were not in a position to drink even water but moms are moms. They are the experts of emotional blackmail when it comes to feeding the kids. Even after denying for so many times at last we did not have any option left than to agree. Deal was set to have one puri. We were having but then suddenly we don’t know from where she came and kept two more puris in each of our plates. We finished eating finally. We were so full that we were unable to walk. Although it was evening but we were so full that we all skipped our dinner.

This situation happens many a times when our moms serve us food. They always feel that we are not having food properly. It is always the favourite dialogue of all the moms when they see their kid after long time, “You have become so thin.” And when the kid is married then guy’s mother will feel that daughter in law is not taking proper care of their son and girl’s mother will feel that in-laws and husband are not taking care of her daughter.

This is mom’s love. For each of us, our mom is the world’s best cook. They have the perfect recipe of everything, blending the love together with other ingredients and serving the best food. The love with which they serve you the food, no one else can do. Whenever the food comes to you via your mother, it becomes special. The love they shower is incomparable and precious. 

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Television Serialistic Facts

Television has always been the medium for passing time. After a day of hard-work whether at office or home, we all love to sit in front of the television atleast for some time and enjoy watching it so as to escape our minds from other things.

As kids we had only two channels: National and Metro better known as DD1 and DD2. But now with the emergence of satellite television, number of channels available is nothing less than number of items present in a hypermart. It is like the supermarket having different categories, specifications and choices. With so much of availability, we all now have something as per our own choice. Unlike before when there used to be particular timings for one kind of show like specific time for news/cartoons/music shows/cookery shows/movies, we now have separate channels dedicated only for one particular choice.

Different people have different choices. Reality, cookery, cartoons, news, nature, science: all these shows are fine but I just wonder about the never ending daily soaps, that deal with domestic dealings and family politics. Even with so much of over acting and illogical things, few shows just go on and on. Do people really like these? I just observed few exclusive funny facts about these serials which cannot be applied to real life. These are:

  • Ø  With plastic surgery of face, your height and voice can also be changed;
  • Ø  Daughter in laws of the joint families always wear heavily worked sarees, heels and loads of jewellery even when they sleep;
  • Ø  Half of the dialogues are actually not spoken, wo mann mein bole jaate hain; especially the female villains who communicate with themselves only;
  • Ø  In case of any shocking news or surprise, camera will be focused on the most affected person from all the four sides with all light and sound effects; and other family member’s face will be shown atleast once in black and white;
  • Ø  Characters (most of them) are not committed to one person;
  • Ø  All serials will have one good one and one bad one; good one will be tortured and made suffer for years and all of a sudden when the serial is to be finished then in one episode everything will be resolved and the serial comes to an end;
  • Ø  Whenever the good one plans something, bad one will definitely hear it but when bad one plans out something, good one will never hear that;
  • Ø  Bad ones have over-confidence but good ones have lack of confidence;
  • Ø  Lady villains always have loud makeup like big bindis, huge earrings and all sorts of heavy accessories;
  • Ø Serails will always celebrate some or other festival or occasion and few episodes will be over in showing the arrangement of lavish parties;
  • Ø  People getting bored! TRP reduced! Kill someone….TRP raised drastically from 40% to 90%;
  • Ø  In scheduled time of half an hour, 15 mins goes in advertisements, 5 mins goes off in recap, after the break and next episode; so effectively actual story and dialogues are shown for 10 mins;
  • Ø  Missed the serial for a month, no need to worry; you may find some new characters but story remains at the same point;
  • Ø  Serials are full of makeovers but with seldom change in acting, changes only exist for dressing and hair style;
  • Ø  Latest trends of these serials: MAHAEPISODE and that too on weekends for 1-2 hours;
  • Ø  Story not progressing! Introduce some new character just like that;
  • Ø  Celebrations for completing 100, 200, 500 and then finally 1000 episodes;


Thought about these many, I guess enough. I don’t want to celebrate for remembering 100 such points J

Sunday, August 11, 2013

Brands Confused Brains





Watch television for 10 minutes but effectively you will be watching advertisements for around 7 minutes. And among all these ads what interests me more, is the tagline for cosmetic products, like: face creams ---Lakme - youth infinity; Ponds – white beauty or age miracle; Olay - total effects or regenerist; Neutrogena – fine fairness or deep clean; And the ingredients for preparing them like different soaps --- contain shea butter, tea tree oil, jojoba oil, aloevera, eucalyptus oil, honey, lemon; face washes available with all varieties of fruit flavours and etc etc.

Each product of each brand is unique but confusing. From toothpastes having salt to shampoo for silky, shiny, damage repair, dandruff free, for oily, dry, straight, curly; from hair colours to face creams; from mosturiser to lip guards having strawberry/cherry/guava/apple; from dish cleaning agent having power of 100 lemons to hand wash that cleans your hand in 10 second and not 60 seconds. Everything has something different to offer.

Isn’t all this confusing? Even if I am very clear about my skin and hair type, if I go to the market to shop for some cosmetic, I am definitely going to be confused while buying after seeing so many products; I won’t be able to decide that which one will actually suit me. My mom or grand mom never faced this type of dilemma because neither they had this knowledge nor they had the choice but their skin or better if I say health, was much better than us.

People now are so much conscious about their looks and this huge availability of products is slowly transforming this consciousness to craziness. Of course, it is better to be concerned for your health but definitely not worth to be paranoid. You will stuff yourself with oily food and then you get a pimple on your face and then you will expect that clean and clear facewash will remove your pimple at one wash. Is it really possible? Just sensibly think on it. Any golden glow facial scrub will not make you fair and make you glow like gold. Don’t be confused with all these pearl white, golden glow and age miracles. It is always better to consume fruits than running behind these fruity extract products.

If you are in your 30’s then none of the creams will make you younger. Please remember that youth is for certain time and not infinite. There is nothing wrong in getting old. Every age has it’s own charm and grace. You are what you are, so don’t pretend to be one you are not. Everything is the result of the balance, if maintained you can feel good and therefore look good. If balance does not exist then nothing can be good.


I like one ad where Arjun Rampal says that, “These shade cards are for walls of the house and not for your skin”.

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Bangalore: where “Bakeries” serve the purpose of landmarks

We the people spend a lot of time travelling to and fro between office or college and home. While travelling, we cross many areas, the so called “stops”. No doubt each stop has a different name but what else I have noticed in most of these, is that each stop has a Bakery right at the main bus stop. For example:

Kundanahalli : Silsila Bakery                          
Whitefield : Mayura and Brother’s Bakery               
Vinayaka Layout : Archana Bakery
Brookebond : Devika Bakery
Arekeri : Iyengar Bakery
AECS Layout: Ragam’s Bakery
BTM Layout : Mr. and Cosmo Bakery
Channasandra : Thirumala Bakery
Bellthur : Sri Sai Bakery
Varthur Kodi : Mangala Bakery
Hennur : Honest Bakery
Bellandur (Opposite to Central) : Bellandur Bakery and Sweets
Marathahalli : Raju Bakery, Pooja Bakery , Royal Bakery
And …..

These bakeries are indispensable for us. As the city has grown, bakeries too have grown. From serving just bakery items like: “dilpasand”, “fruit cakes” , “veg-puffs” , “cream rolls” etc  these bakeries now sell tea , sweets , biscuits , chips , sandwiches , birthday-cakes , ice-creams , other dry snacks and lot more. Crowd is always there. Rushing for somewhere, just stop for a while, pick some snack and move on. If these bakeries would not have existed, many would have starved.

But these bakeries are not just meager eating joints but they actually serve the purpose of landmarks. We identify the stops by identifying the bakeries. You ask anyone about any specific location, be it a bank or school or office or bus stop; you might be told that “Go in <exact directions>, you will find “Location X”, it is near “Y Bakery”. Sometimes people might ask you “Where is this bakery?” in order to enquire about some place, because people are very sure that exact location of these bakeries would surely guide them to the place they need to visit.

Cheers to the Bakeries and the Bakers JJJ